How tough is a decision? Does it depend on the situation or it depends on the user who views the situation. A person who is very clear in what he/she wants and what he/she does not want and who knows very well what is good for all and what is bad for him/her can take a decision very easily. Does this statement hold good and take care of all possibilities of decision? I am not fully aware of it. A decision can be as simple as choosing a flavour of an icecream. It can be a very crucial life altering one. Does the decision also depends upon the variety of choices given to the decision maker?? Of course it matters. Show a kid a dozen flavours of ice-creams and ask him to choose exactly one. If the kid's favourite flavour is Butterscotch - it is easy to choose. But imagine if the kid likes vanilla,chocolate and pista as well. What will be chosen? Exactly same situations happen many times in life also. The earlier the better the decision taken is better. If the kid chooses the icecream flavour after 2 hours, there is a chance that the icecream melts to milk. :) Similarly, there is nothing to think for long time and then come to a final end. Take it today and take it now and take it at once. I am not on the side of decisions taken without a second thought. All outcomes of decision can be thought and analysed in a few time. Procrastinating a decision will help u in no way. It can put the matter to silence at that point of time. But when it erupts, who knows it could end up in an earthquake or in a volcano.
And never ever repent for any decision taken in life. There should not be a sentence from you saying that "I could have done that. If I had done that or if I had taken that path, might be it would have been easier". Such lines are never going to make u go to the past. So stop repenting and save time instead. For any decision there are 2 sides --- One that is very easy and the other is very tough and which most of the times tend to be the right one. Are you going to take a decision which is going to be easy or u going to make one which will keep u happy and make u feel comfortable in the long run but yet tough. The right decision may at times doesnot give u happiness. Happiness is nothing but the absence of sadness. It is just a choice and u can be happy if U want to be and even if u take a tough/difficult decision. So come on face the fact and embrace life with open hands and do not hide from the world postponing things and live in virtual reality. Choose the Right decision though it looks tough. No Pain; No Gain.